Hey Friend, I'm Kate!

Sometimes, all you need is one person to say,

Let me tell you a secret....

"Yes - you can absolutely do that.."

My husband Pete and I wanted to do a “geocache” wedding. 

To drop a date + GPS coordinates to a few select guests, and have them meet us at our favorite Utah desert spot.

It seemed audacious. It seemed bold. It seemed wildly impractical, yet perfectly, deeply us.

And yet, I didn’t have anyone to whisper “you can do that” in my ear.

 All I could see was a series of obstacles. There was a lot I didn’t know:

  • I didn’t know that you can hold special dinners back home for loved ones who can’t hike.  
  • I didn’t know that weddings could be multi-day events, featuring ample time with your crew and safeguarded experiences to be alone as a couple.  
  • I didn’t know that a skilled photographer could capture the epic-ness of an elopement so well that even skeptical parents would wave their album to all their friends, bragging ‘Look what our crazy kids did!’

Let’s pause here for a second.  

I didn’t have a guide then - but I do know, intimately, the power of one.

As a small-town Wisconsin kid who worked hard to get into college, I didn’t know what to do with a growing desire I had to explore my ancestral African roots.

My life offered no scripts, no examples, of how to act on that idea. Then, a guidance counselor placed an international study brochure in my hands.  She affirmed "Yes, it’s possible." 

Showed real paths to making it happen. Gently offered me courage, even when those I love said, “Wait, you want to do what?”

Because I had help, in a mind-expanding flash I went from never seeing the ocean until college, to flying across it to live in Zimbabwe in Southern Africa for six months & meeting family in Nigeria to cap it  off.   It completely changed the trajectory of my life.  

I bet you’ve had a similar experience. And I’m here to tell you:

One that changes what you understand to be possible...   

One that is so fingerprinted to your love that you will feel the delight in your bones the rest of your life... 

Your wedding can be that kind of experience.  

I am your ally with courage to spare.   

Here, MAKING SURE YOU AREN’T LIMITED BY THINGS YOU DON’T KNOW *YET*.

Relentlessly in your corner. Hearing every wisp of a dream, and showing you five ways to make it happen. Letting you choose, hunting down the details, and bringing back a plan to make it come together.

Yes, it’s possible.

I will whisper or shout it as many times as you need.  🤗

WHere we hoped to be...
WHere we ended up...

One big “I can’t believe we did that” that gives you and your spouse courage to be even bolder together in future chapters...

We encountered many last second road blocks and hiccups towards the end and she nimbly helped us adjust for every single one. By the time we met her we truly felt like we knew her and she was a part of our lives for years. 

Umi & John

I want you to  know...

...that I do this (gestures broadly to everything elopements) because I mean it. Because your wedding is YOURS, and I want to make sure your wedding stays as ALL the things you want, and nothing you don’t.  

Want to talk about what’s possible?

I WANT YOU TO KNOW...

...that I do this (gestures broadly to everything elopements) because I mean it. Because your wedding is YOURS, and I want to make sure your wedding stays as ALL the things you want, and nothing you don’t.  

Want to talk about what’s possible?

count on me to:

Ask you “why” so we make sure decisions align to what you want and feel

Give you ideas that may seem wild & crazy to make sure you’re not unintentionally limiting yourself

Bring my  10+ years of photography work to capture gorgeous images across your adventure so your memories never fade.

Be loud that everyone of every color, gender, sexual identity, and body type should have their love celebrated + take up space in the outdoors.


Sounds good? LET’S TALK. Tell me every wisp of a wild dream you’ve had, and we’ll go make it real.

Adventure accomplice.

Traveler.

Lifelong “sporto.”

Organized optimist. 

Adventure accomplice.

Traveler.

Lifelong “sporto.”

Organized optimist. 

If there's anything I'm proud of, it's my couples who decide to elope❤️️

So I'm stoked as hell to share inspiration in these amazing publications so more couples, just like you can know something DIFFERENT is possible.  🤗

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